{"id":740,"date":"2021-03-19T17:36:31","date_gmt":"2021-03-19T15:36:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sashafirs.com\/blog\/?p=740"},"modified":"2021-08-29T15:33:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-29T13:33:36","slug":"how-to-defend-your-personal-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashafirs.com\/blog\/en\/how-to-defend-your-personal-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Defend Your Personal Boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Personal boundaries are needed so that we can clearly feel: where I am, and where I am not;\u00a0where are my own emotions, actions, beliefs and thoughts, and where are others.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.ru\/forbes-woman\/psikhologiya\/261905-ya-v-domike-kak-pravilno-ustanavlivat-granitsy\">Source forbes.ru<\/a><\/p>\n<h1><strong>Why is it hard for us to talk about our personal boundaries?<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>There is a big difference between mental health and mental health.\u00a0Psychologists say that only 5-10% of the entire population is healthy.\u00a0The other 5% are &#171;real psychos&#187; (schizophrenics, for example), and, as a rule, are treated for years in clinics.<\/p>\n<p>The rest of the population is divided into neurotics and people with one or another personality disorder.\u00a0Based on this, the likelihood that you and I are a little &#171;that&#187; is very high.\u00a0As a rule, everything comes from childhood.\u00a0So what are the blocks that prevent us from respecting our boundaries?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Hypertrophied feelings such as\u00a0<strong>shame<\/strong>\u00a0and\u00a0<strong>guilt.\u00a0<\/strong>In this case, it is easier for you to endure inconvenience to the detriment of yourself\u00a0<em>(and quarter the object of irritation in your thoughts)<\/em>\u00a0than to correctly express your dissatisfaction.<\/li>\n<li>Containment of anger.\u00a0<strong>Anger<\/strong>\u00a0is an absolutely adequate emotion of any animal, including humans.\u00a0Therefore, one way or another, this emotion will be expressed.\u00a0And then the choice is yours: either you show it in a measured and correct way in the form of a little discontent, indignation, irritation.\u00a0Or you hold back until it leads to outright aggression.\u00a0<em>(and not always on the guilty person).\u00a0<\/em>When your anger has accumulated excessively, you yourself begin to push the other person.\u00a0This is not very correct.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Anger is an indicator that someone is breaking your boundaries.\u00a0Do not suppress this feeling in yourself.\u00a0On the contrary, analyze it and express it in a correct and confident manner.<\/p>\n<h1><strong>It&#8217;s not always worth complaining<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>If the person who violates your boundaries does not require personal contact from you, then it would be wiser to leave, move away.\u00a0I&#8217;m talking about examples like a bad-smelling citizen on public transport, a city crazy, or a drunken company with loud music from a speaker.\u00a0Agree &#8212; there is no point in wasting energy and nerves on unnecessary conflicts in this case.<\/p>\n<p>If the person achieves your reaction, and this does not suit you, then in this case it is appropriate to build boundaries.\u00a0How to do this while respecting both yourself and him?\u00a0Let&#8217;s figure it out.<\/p>\n<h1><a href=\"https:\/\/vk.com\/public184869340\"><strong>Ways to mark your boundaries<\/strong><\/a><\/h1>\n<h4><strong>Method 1.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>1) Indicate the fact of what happened (actions or words of a person who violated your personal boundaries).\u00a0Do not give any assessment of the situation.<\/p>\n<p>2) Tell us about the emotions that you experienced while doing this.<\/p>\n<p>3) Ask the person how he could behave next time so that this situation does not happen again.<\/p>\n<h5>Example:<\/h5>\n<p>Once my mother came to visit me.\u00a0While I was at work, my mother cleaned the apartment.\u00a0Rearranged some of my personal belongings.\u00a0Despite the fact that she did it solely with the best intentions, the effect was exactly the opposite.\u00a0Since this was a complete violation of my personal space.\u00a0We were all brought up differently.\u00a0Therefore, no one can guess what you like and what you don&#8217;t\u00a0<em>(<\/em>\u00a0not\u00a0<em>even your mom)<\/em>\u00a0.\u00a0We need to talk about this.\u00a0But we are often ashamed to express our feelings frankly, which leads to anger and cold war.<\/p>\n<p>In such a situation, you should say something like: \u201cBeloved mother, thank you for your concern.\u00a0But I am not very pleased when someone delves into my things while I am away.\u00a0Even if we are talking about someone as dear and close as you.\u00a0This violates my beliefs about my personal life.\u00a0I feel uncomfortable.\u00a0Please ask my permission next time. &#187;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Method 2. Refusal<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Reasonably refuse a person.\u00a0While not succumbing to provocations, blackmail or manipulation.\u00a0If the request to you goes against your peace of mind, continue to refuse and explain the reason for the refusal until you are left alone.\u00a0<em>(like a worn-out record).\u00a0<\/em>The more pressure on you, the more you use the force of reaction.\u00a0If this pressure continues, just leave the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Easier said than done?\u00a0Oh yeah!\u00a0Especially if we are not talking about a stranger, but, for example, about someone whom you hold dear.<\/p>\n<p>Do not misunderstand me.\u00a0Personal boundaries should not be confused with outright uncompromising selfishness.\u00a0Personal boundaries are the limit that you specifically cannot tolerate in view of your beliefs, and even complexes.\u00a0You shouldn&#8217;t be ashamed to talk about them.<\/p>\n<h5>Example:<\/h5>\n<p>A friend asks you if she could come to visit with her dog.\u00a0You don\u2019t want wool everywhere in your house &#8212; you don\u2019t like it.\u00a0You tell her about it.\u00a0You argue that, they say, the house is new, that if you yourself have a dog, it will live on the street.\u00a0A friend may be offended, say what kind of friend are you?\u00a0You explain once again that it will be unpleasant for you, that you do not want wool in the house, and no matter what she tells you, you, unfortunately, really cannot give in in this situation.\u00a0Etc.<\/p>\n<p>That is, continue to bend your line according to the principle of the &#171;worn-out record&#187; until this dialogue survives itself.\u00a0And remember that this is not arrogance or selfishness.\u00a0These are your personal boundaries.\u00a0You are entitled to them.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Method 3. Threat<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This method is used as a last resort.\u00a0When the measure of pressure on you and your inner feelings reaches an extreme point.\u00a0That is, initially you do the same as in the previous paragraphs: imagine a fact, say WHAT you are experiencing, say WHY you don\u2019t like it, ask not to do it.<\/p>\n<p>If, repeating the request over and over again, the person does not back down, then a specific threat should be presented.\u00a0And, as a last resort, to fulfill it.<\/p>\n<h5>Example:<\/h5>\n<p>A\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bombshell_(2019_film)\">film<\/a>\u00a0based on real events surrounding the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/ukrainian\/ukraine_in_russian\/2016\/07\/160707_ru_s_fox_news_harrasment_scandal\">FOX News trial<\/a>\u00a0has recently been released\u00a0.\u00a0In connection with this sensational scandal, we will give the following example.\u00a0The boss offers the subordinate sexual relations in exchange for a 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